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[ARTICLE] Kim Hyun Joong:  A Fine Line between Love and Loss

4/19/2015

 

There is no Doubt Kim Hyun Joong’s Fans Still Support Him and are Steadfast in Staying by His Side.  However, Love can be Blind and Decisions can be Made that Cause More Harm than Good.  Let us not Lose Sight of the Heart and Wishes of the One We Love as We Continue to Give Support without Crossing the Line and Invading His Privacy and Pride.

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As a Fan of Kim Hyun Joong, I have experienced a level and depth of Love like none I have ever known before.  I have never had a Love Affair with a perfect stranger like this and have never experienced the Beauty of Unity like I have with his Fan Family.  It is truly an amazing experience and I have struggled to work out my thoughts and feelings through my blog welcoming the thoughts of my fellow fans as they shared their similar experiences and made me feel I am  part of a family of like minded people rather than the crazy person I was concerned I had become.  As I have been involved with more and more fans on a more intimate basis in the past few months making beautiful projects of Love Messages for him as he and his family go through hardships, my faith in the good hearts Kim Hyun Joong attracts to his side has become increased to the point of being unshakable.
I know his fans have beautiful and caring hearts and every action they take on his behalf is coming from a place of deep love and concern for his well being.  As such, I am usually very supportive of whatever projects or measures they want to take to correct the grave injustice he has suffered at the hands of his fellow countrymen and a woman whom he trusted enough to give his heart only to be betrayed in the worst possible way.  As the fans who have followed him for a good long time know well, Kim Hyun Joong is a very private person and his personal business being brought to public trial as it has been must have been the worst possible torture for him to endure.
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The fact that he was being talked about boldly in the SK Media was not enough punishment for his lapse in judgment for trusting this woman who clearly has no scruples.  He has also been discussed on Social Media all over the world by non fans and fans alike.  I have even devoted many articles on this blog to the scandal and the thought of Hyun Joong’s humiliation at being the subject of discussion for nearly a year now brings chills to my heart.  My poor Angel, he is human and flawed and must live before the entire world revealing those flaws.  As much love as we have showered him with in our discussions and messages and projects, he must still feel such deep shame having been judged so publicly by his supporters and enemies alike.  It is very sobering to think how difficult it must be for him to have to live his life this way because he chose to become a celebrity and public figure.  It is my sincere hope and prayer that he knows in his heart all the love and beauty he has spread for his 10 years in the business are far more valuable and I do pray he can decide in his heart that the sacrifices he made up to and including this time of scandal and shame were well worth it.  It is my intention to make sure he knows and understands this.  I am working out the details of a very special project that will span the 2 years he is in MS to remind him each month of the lives he has not only touched and brightened but completely CHANGED for the better.  I will disclose the details on that in a couple of months.  There is plenty of time and I do hope all who are interested in participating will be able to do so.  I am giving you only a teaser right now but I do hope to have the means to help fans tell Kim Hyun Joong their inspiring stories of how he inspired them to change their lives for the better.
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I want to emphasize how much I believe in Kim Hyun Joong’s fans and the tenderness and love in their hearts.  I believe they have always wanted what was best for Kim Hyun Joong and all their efforts and actions have come from a beautiful place deep in their hearts stemming from their deep love and affection for him.  I am saying this to let the fans know I understand the pain and frustration the fandom has been suppressing for several months now since there has been no further news or resolution to the latest scandal about Ms. Choi’s alleged pregnancy.The fact that she has been allowed to remain anonymous and smear Hyun Joong’s good name and reputation through the media has been infuriating and unjust.  The fans are restless for a resolution and for just punishment for those who set out to destroy him.  I understand this feeling of helplessness completely as we just wait for any word from him or news on a resolution so he can go into his Military Service peacefully and quietly as he requested on his Gemini Tour.  It was almost as if he was expecting this bomb to go off and was begging the fans to let him handle it quietly and go into his 2 year break from his public appearances without causing a fuss or a ruckus for him.  And so far, the fans have managed to contain their frustration and honor his wishes accordingly even through all of the confusing and false reports put out by the Media and his former agency Key East Entertainment.
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Now, there has been a very disturbing occurrence over the past two days as a Petition to Reveal the Identity of Ms. Choi by Dispatch and the South Korean Media has surfaced on change.org.  This petition has already been signed by many fans thinking they would be helping Kim Hyun Joong by bringing justice to the ‘face’ of the enemy who has caused him so much harm.  I am deeply saddened and felt a horrible sense of dread when I saw this notice.  Some of you may have already seen my protest on my Social Media accounts including Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.  I am dead against this petition.  Why? Is it because I think the Media and Ms. Choi should get away with the lies they have told and the damage they have done not only to Kim Hyun Joong and his Family but to the millions of fans around the world who have had to endure the pain of his public trial but also the hateful comments and slurs of the anti fans who have plagued us even in our private Social Media accounts ghost posting negative stories as if we, the Strongest Supporters of Kim Hyun Joong were suddenly changing our minds and agreeing with their hate speech.  They have done everything possible to shame and discredit us and it has been horribly painful.  I am not trying to diminish the validity of our outrage.  Do we have a right to retaliate with legal means?  Possibly.  I have no issues with the attempts of fans to sue the Media and the individuals who have been so loose and free with their hateful comments.  However, do we have the right to see the face and know the identity of Hyun Joong’s accuser?  My answer is a firm and adamant NO!
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The house of the wicked will be destroyed, but the tent of the upright will stand.  There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.  Even in laughter a heart may be sad and joy may end in grief.  The disloyal will get what his conduct deserves, and a good man what his deeds deserve.  Proverbs 14:11-14
Why?  Because Kim Hyun Joong himself has begged us to not seek her out or to blame her for any of what has happened.  Is this because he still loves her?  Possibly.  If he does that is none of our concern.  However, it is more likely because Kim Hyun Joong is such a loving, forgiving and private person.  He wants to minimize the publicity and keep the solution to his problems to himself.  We need to respect those wishes and remain quiet and still waiting and trusting him to do whatever is best for himself.  We may love him like family, but the fact is we are just his Fans and have no right whatsoever to interfere in his private life.  Just because it has been made so public and has affected us so deeply does not change this fact.  We cannot force his hand or make decisions for him.  We need to stand by him, support him with our love, prayers and messages of faith and encouragement, but we are not to step over the line and interfere in his private business.  In light of these facts, I am begging anyone who has spread this petition, or even gone further and actually signed it, to retract their support on their Social Media immediately and to retract their signature from the petition.  Yes, there is a way to do so.  If you have spread it on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram, you can delete your posts.  If you re-tweeted or shared you can take it back.  If you need help doing so, please follow the pictures below to do so including following the link in your confirmation email from change.org to retract your signature.  

click here for a tutorial of how to retract your posts ON Twitter and Facebook and your signature at change.org

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I shudder at the thought of the pain and anguish this type of action would cause Hyun Joong.  He will be disappointed and feel ashamed.  Please reconsider if you have already supported this petition.  Please, for his sake.  I know you have done what you thought was right out of the love in your hearts.  I hope and pray you reconsider and realize he would not want this kind of public upheaval once again.  We don’t need to know who she is.  Let Hyun Joong handle this situation in private and Trust him, Please!  I am begging from the bottom of my breaking heart.  This cannot be pushed through.  Even the request would kill him.  Please, I’m begging.  I know that if you think on it and remember his own statement from the first scandal begging the fans to leave her alone and the statement from his parents this time asking the media to let them handle their family business in private.  We must respect and honor that.  It is frustrating as hell since we want to protect and defend him when his silence makes it seem he is not doing it for himself.  Truthfully, his silence is not inaction.  It is his way of letting the chaos quiet down.  This petition will only bring it back to light and in that sense I am very suspicious of it.  This fan who posted, Tonia Emmem, I have never heard of or met her.  She may be a legitimate fan with a good intention, but I can’t help wondering if she does not even exist and it is an enemy camp poser.  The page says she is from USA.  I have met most of the USA fans online through our official fb page.  I am fb friends with over 950 fans from around the world and I have more friends on Twitter, Instagram and through my activities on other fanblogs and this one.  I have NEVER heard of her.  If she is legit, I am begging her along with all of you to take down and rescind her petition.  I cannot message her on change.org.  Her account is private.  Another suspicious thing.
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And so, I have said what I think on this matter.  I know there will be some who disagree and I know there are veteran fans and well known bloggers who are supporting it.  I will leave it up to you to decide.  These are just my thoughts and opinions.  Feel free to comment below whether you support or oppose my position.  I am willing to hear you out.  I am just taking my stand based on what I feel Kim Hyun Joong himself would want.  In all the years I have followed him and for all the REASONS I follow him, I am making this determination.  I hope you will consider carefully as well.  I have respected his intent and desire not to harm another person for any reason even when they have caused him great damage and harm.  It is this beautiful soul that I LOVE with no conditions.  I love him because he is gentle and peaceful.  I respect him because he does not throw back the mud he has been splattered with.  I love him forever because he is Kim Hyun Joong.  Blame, Retaliation, Revenge or even Real Justice are not the things he seeks out.  He only seeks to be the best Kim Hyun Joong he can possibly be and to learn from his mistakes and improve himself to become better and to contribute more love and joy to this world.  I don’t believe evil will ever prevail in his case.  He is an Angel in Human Skin.  He is altruistic and brings so much to so many literally changing people’s hearts and lives.  God will never abandon his loyal and faithful servant.  God will make everything fall into it’s proper place.  Let’s Trust God and Trust Kim Hyun Joong.  Let us focus on Love and Support and not make a public spectacle like that crazy Ms. Choi.  May we never become like our enemies in the Pursuit of Justice.  Legal Action has it’s place, but it is not always the best way to conquer the evil in the world.  We have a Spiritual Bond with Kim Hyun Joong and each other.  Something others are envious of and have no way of understanding.  Let us understand him and each other and bear all the pain and shame in love.  Love will overcome all.  We are living proof and by our Love we will be known and set free.  The World knows nothing of Love.  We as his Family and Fans know the Truest Meaning of Love and we are blessed.  Let us be a Blessing back to him tenfold just as he deserves.
But now we have been released from the law, for we died to it and are no longer captive to its power. Now we can serve God, not in the old way of obeying the letter of the law, but in the new way of living in the Spirit.  Romans 7:6
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So, how to focus our energy and support?  Let us vote on all the Polls available.  Let us post his pictures and his memories daily on our Social Media.  Let us discuss the good qualities and beautiful experiences we have had with him and each other.  Let us send him messages of Hope, Love, Joy, Peace and Support from all over the Globe.  Please visit my updated Support KHJ page here on this blog.  I have listed the recent polls and the Facebook Event Pages for United Global Support and United Prayers.  Those project videos have been completed and sent to him.  The Event Pages are still going strong and we are encouraging fans to continue posting in them as a means of support all throughout his Military Service and Beyond.  Please frequent the UBKBHenecia Facebook Page as well where future projects will be announced and positive articles and memories are posted daily by the active fans.  Let us keep our activities positive and filled with love.  Let us not dwell on the evil of the enemy.  They are in God’s hands and He will have His Just Vengeance.  Kim Hyun Joong’s life is a Living Testimony of Love.  Let us continue to support that and make it possible for him to continue his work of Love in this world.  He will come back to us Healthy, Happy and Strong.  All he needs from us is the warmth of our hearts and hands.  The beauty of our words and stories.  The knowledge that he has MADE A DIFFERENCE in this PAINFUL WORLD to SO MANY SOULS and it is all worth the battle to continue.  
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A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.  John 13:34-35
It is all well worth it, My Angel Kim Hyun Joong.  We miss you so.  Please take care of yourself and know that whatever decisions you make in your private life are your own and we will continue to love and support you no matter what.  We will continue to look forward to your contributions to the world of Art and Entertainment.  But, most of all we will continue to look forward to walking this journey of life being inspired by you.  We are inspired by your heart.  We are moved by your Commitment to the Truth.  WE are forever yours and we will never let go of your hand.  You are our Hope in times of Despair.  Let us be yours.  That is all we ask.  Grasp our hands tightly and walk with your Head Held High and Proud.  You have made life livable for all of us.  Let us bring you back to the place where we are able to share with you and you with us that Joyful, Childlike Innocence and Beauty.  We miss you so much.  Be well and rest well during your 2 years away from us.  We will be praying for and supporting you faithfully with all the Love in our Hearts.  Our Only One.  Forever together,


Angie Noonim
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avino chaya
4/19/2015 12:21:22 am

Thaty Perroni
4/19/2015 12:26:30 am

Hat's off for you, AngelJoong!
You simply said all I think!
Especially this part:

"He wants to minimize the publicity and keep the solution to his problems to himself. We need to respect those wishes and remain quiet and still waiting and trusting him to do whatever is best for himself. We may love him like family, but the fact is we are just his Fans and have no right whatsoever to interfere in his private life. Just because it has been made so public and has affected us so deeply does not change this fact. We cannot force his hand or make decisions for him. We need to stand by him, support him with our love, prayers and messages of faith and encouragement, but we are not to step over the line and interfere in his private business."

We're a family, but we're a FAN family. We was created by the love that we have for him. But we don't have the right to get into his private life. Done.
The fans need to understand this. Now, more than ever.

And more: If we make a hate and insane move like this petition, we'll be doing THE SAME that Choi did. We'll be on her same low level.

The most honest way to really help is using something that this opponent don't have: Love & Respect.

To the fans: Be pacient. Things always clarify with time. Not in the time that you want, but in the RIGHT time.

MarutaSan
4/19/2015 03:45:52 am

Thank you AngelJoong for writing this. I also agree in all you wrote. Thaty you always have wise words as well. I only hope we can move on all together despite our differences. Please, let's leave aside all misunderstandings and work together. After all, we're all here for HJ. Let HJ solve his private matters and let's be there to support him. Henecia and Kim Hyun Joong Fighting!


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